Are you currently a member of any of the major online dating sites, including Match.com, Plentyoffish (POF) and/or eHarmony?  We congratulate you!  It means that you’re expanding your search for that special someone and you’re probably using online sites instead of, or in addition to, looking for someone locally.  Regardless of which routes you take, we understand the importance of taking action to find the person you want in your life.  While many dating sites actually do what their industry implies (“find you dates”), are “dates” all you’re really looking for?  Are you really looking only for dates, for someone to hang out with, chat with or hook up with?  Is that the extent of what you’re looking for and are you okay with having that level of interaction with as many people as those sites can provide you with?  If that is the level of contact and interaction you want and are looking for, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that.  That level of superficial contact and interaction only becomes a problem or feels unfulfilling when the person engaging in it is actually looking for something other than simply a date, when they are looking for something more substantial and meaningful.

While sites such as Match and POF are dating sites, it seem that many of their members are not just looking for dates but are using dates as the beginning of what they hope will progress into a relationship.  Many members of popular dating sites become dissatisfied when the sites don’t provide them with a sufficient number of dates (which reduces the number of opportunities they have for dates that might grow into relationships) or they’re dissatisfied with the poor quality of the members in the dating pool (which reduces the number of people with whom they would like to have a meaningful relationship).  What are you looking for on dating sites: someone to go out with or hook up with or someone to be with on a permanent basis?

DontDateAPsycho.com is not a dating site; it’s a relationship site.  It was founded on a singular principle: Relationship is everything.  The site is dedicated to first helping its members become better partners before they are involved in relationships and equipping them to have healthy and functional long-term relationships.  Regardless of which dating site a person frequents and no matter how a person goes about meeting people or getting dates, they’re eventually going to have to learn how to become good partners and have healthy relationships.  Otherwise they’re likely to wind up just going on an endless series of dates.

Having a healthy relationship depends not only on a person being emotionally healthy, but also on that person interacting with people who are also emotionally healthy.  DontDateAPsycho has a unique system that helps members find dates.  The system utilizes a psychological assessment tool that assigns members personality codes that take into account what they are like on deep emotional and psychological levels.  The system then does something amazing:  It lets members know which other members they will not get along with on a long-term basis, in addition to providing them a list of members with whom they can connect on deeper levels.  Imagine: you can know from the start which members it would be a waste of time interacting with and which ones have personality and emotional characteristics that increase the likelihood that you’ll be able to get together and stay together on levels that are much deeper and more meaningful than what you look like, what interests you share and the fact that you both like the same movies and music.

DontDateAPsycho.com has remarkable resources:

• DontDateAPsycho University – a system of online courses, webinars and podcasts that help members become better, healthier people and prepare them for healthy long-term relationships.

• Ask the Expert – a question & answer component that allows members to ask important questions about themselves, their lives and their relationships and then get a response from specially-trained relationship experts that gives them specific answers to their questions.

• An online store – packed with books and other resources that empower and inspire members to be the best individuals they can be and to have the best relationship they’ve ever had.

DontDateAPsycho.com looks for people who are looking for more: more than they’ve had, more than they have and more than they’ve expected to get.